“Oh God. Oy. I’m in denial. I’m just in total denial. I don’t even want to talk about it. Being 80 is just unfathomable to me,” said Candice Bergen, who is preparing to celebrate her milestone birthday on May 9, 2026. As she approaches this significant age, Bergen’s reflections reveal both her accomplishments and the personal challenges she has faced throughout her life.

Bergen, best known for her iconic role in the television series Murphy Brown, has had a long and successful career in both television and film. Over the years, she has garnered five Emmy nominations for her work on the show, which aired from 1989 to 1998. Recently, she appeared in the Apple TV+ series Shrinking, showcasing her enduring talent and adaptability in the entertainment industry.

In addition to her professional achievements, Bergen treasures her family life. She describes her two grandchildren, Louis and Alice, as “the lights of my life.” She enjoys spending quality time with them, often watching movies together on her couch, where they affectionately call her “Toto.” This close-knit family bond has been a source of joy for Bergen, especially following the loss of her second husband, Marshall Rose, who passed away in February 2025.

Bergen’s journey has not been without its hardships. Her first husband, Louis Malle, died in 1995 at the age of 63. These experiences have shaped her perspective on life and the importance of self-care. “Self-care isn’t selfish, it’s essential survival,” she emphasizes, highlighting the need for caregivers to prioritize their well-being.