Mikayla Matthews and Jace Terry Announce Separation
What does the recent separation of Mikayla Matthews and Jace Terry signify for their family and their future? The couple announced their decision to separate during Episode 9 of Season 4 of the reality show “Secret Lives of Mormon Wives,” revealing that they are facing significant challenges in their relationship.
Mikayla Matthews and Jace Terry, who have been married since 2018 and share four children—Beckham, 8, Haven, 6, Tommie, 4, and Lottie, born in July 2025—have cited intimacy issues and Matthews’ past trauma as key factors in their decision. Matthews disclosed that she is currently struggling with her mental health and has been dealing with an undiagnosed chronic illness, which has compounded the difficulties in their marriage.
In the episode, Matthews stated, “We both agreed to do a separation,” emphasizing that the decision was made with their children’s well-being in mind. She expressed uncertainty about the timeline for their separation, noting, “I think it’s definitely hard to put a timeline on the situation because it could take weeks, it could take months to be healed.” This indicates a recognition of the complexities involved in their relationship and the healing process that lies ahead.
Matthews also mentioned that she does not currently have the motivation to work on their sex life, as she is focused on addressing various personal issues. “More than the actual sex I just want to feel like I can connect with my wife again, and I want to feel loved by my wife,” Jace Terry shared, highlighting the emotional aspects of their struggles.
The couple’s decision to separate appears to be a thoughtful one, aimed at fostering a healthier environment for their children. Terry expressed a desire for their children to see their parents having a good, intimate connection, which underscores the importance they place on family dynamics even amidst personal challenges.
As they navigate this separation, Matthews has indicated that she is prioritizing her healing from past trauma, which has been a significant factor in their relationship struggles. The couple’s journey reflects the complexities of marriage and the impact of personal struggles on family life.
While the future remains uncertain, with Matthews stating, “I don’t think it’s like with the intention of being separated forever,” it is clear that both individuals are committed to addressing their issues. Details remain unconfirmed regarding the next steps in their relationship, but the focus on healing and family suggests a thoughtful approach to their current situation.